Very best wishes for a wonderful holiday season and a happy and healing New Year.
I hope everyone whose lives are touched by colorectal cancer find a day of peace and respite from anxiety. Feel strong today!
In this season, I am especially grateful remembering all the folks who brought me safely through this last bout with colon cancer.
I am grateful for Dr. Brian Anderson who hung on until he got the unexpected diagnosed and Dr. Jose Guillem and his team at Memorial Sloan Kettering who did the surgery with such skill. Dr. Jonathan Wright at Upstate Medical University has promised to keep me healthy, watching diligently for all the little surprises that hereditary non-polyposis colon cancer can produce.
Heidi Cross, ostomy nurse at Crouse Hospital, dried my frustrated tears and got me properly outfitted with a pouching system that works and introduced me to wonderful support group full of good people and good ideas. I also learned a lot from Shaz’s Ostomy Pages.
The Healing Ministry at St. James Church in Skaneateles and the St. James Prayer Chain made this entire experience much, much easier that it might have been. When I think of all their prayers, I realize that it could have been worse and it wasn’t. I went into the OR totally unafraid because I knew that while I slept, they prayed.
Many thanks are due to the team at C3 who picked up work cheerfully. when I couldn’t do it.
Most of all, the ACOR Colon List friends gave me support and love and very practical help. What a special, special bunch!
Finally, I could not have done all of this without my family — my sisters, my sons, and my wonderful husband Tom who drove back and forth from New York, stayed in motels, and was there all of the time when I needed him.
As Julian of Norwich wrote,
And so our good Lord replied to all the questions and doubts that I could raise, saying most reassuringly: "I am able to make everything well, and I know how to make everything well, and I wish to make everything well, and I shall make everything well; and thou shalt see for thyself that all manner of things shall be well.
Love to you all — doctors, nurses, friends, family — the support we need to get through. May all things be well for you.
(That’s Bob in the snow who is bothered by very little and is the fuzzy soul of patience.)
Strong days to all of you. Find your own patience and courage and healing.
Kate


