I am a spouse, mother of three, and soon-to-be grandmother, as well as caregiver to my husband with stage IV colorectal cancer. He hopes his story might be able to save a life. This is his plea, in his own words:
Don’t be like me. I thought I was invincible.
I was 47 years old and running 4-6 miles per day. Physically fit and had not seen a medical doctor for anything but a nagging lower back injury in 20 years.
I had been ignoring what I now know were clear signs and symptoms of CRC for 6-9 months. I was constantly tired. I was exhausted and out of breath after walking up a flight of stairs, losing weight, had a burning sensation in my stomach and experiencing changes in my bowel.
I had convinced myself the burning sensation was an ulcer and there was no way I was asking a doctor for a colonoscopy. By the time of my colonoscopy and diagnosis, I had stage IV metastatic colon cancer.
I have no idea what stage it might have been 6-9 months earlier, but I do know it could not have been any worse! As I type this, I’m at Kansas University Hospital getting prepped for a radiation treatment this morning, and will follow that up next Wednesday with my 73rd chemotherapy treatment.
Do me a big favor and message or text me when you have made an appointment for yourself or your spouse to get or discuss a colonoscopy. I would like to think I made a difference.
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